Valentine's Day in Japan

In the western world, Valentine's Day is celebrated by men giving special presents to women. However, in Japan, it has a rather unique manner -- women give chocolates to men, instead of the other way around. When I first discovered this "unconventional" way of celebrating Valentine's day, I was utterly surprised. Coming from a conservative family and in a culture where women should act modest and graceful, giving chocolates to men would sound agressive and inappropriate. But here in Japan, it is widely acceptable. This is indeed the luckiest day for men! And somewhat a favorable time for women to express their hidden affection! Ain't it so?  ^-^

But here is the catch, there are two types of chocolates that women giveth to men on this special day. First is the "giri-choco" meaning "obligation chocolate". These chocolates are relatively cheap and it is what women give to their coworkers, colleagues, bosses or male friends whom they have no romantic interest with, just for friendship and gratitude. Giri literally means courtesy, so men be careful, you might misconstrued these giri-chocos as you know what... ;)

The other one is "honmei-choco". Honmei in Japanese means favorite. These chocolates are of a higher quality and expensive. It can also be handmade or cooked by the giver. Japanese women believe that if they made these chocos personally, they are also putting their feelings into it, making it more special. These kind of chocos are usually given to husbands, boyfriends or men whom the women have romantic relationship with. 

Men are maybe in a state of heaven or praise on this special day, but there is a flip side to this. When March 14 comes, it is their turn to hand chocolates or presents to women. This day is called White Day. Apparently, White Day is also unique as no other country celebrates it. Since it is the men's turn to give, it is expected that the presents are more expensive and fancier than the ones given to them on Valentine's Day. Omochiron! I reiterate, it is more expensive and fancier! Haha!

Practically, men are not off the hook after all, ladies!